Pro's and Con's of Delaying Marriage - Muhammad Al Shareef

Pro's

- You have time to become financially ready to support a wife and a household.
- Finish school and save money
- They'll grow and be able to mature.
- If they're mature then divorce rates will be less and problems will be solved in a mature way.
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Con's

- If you get married at an old age then your ways of life are set already and its harder to accept different ways.
-Difficulty having children, miscarriages.
-It can create weakness in the heart due to temptations
-If a person has bad habits such as smoking, difficult to avoid.
-Delaying marriage is against the sunnah of Rasuallah (saw)

Permissible & Prohibited acts in Marriage- Muhammad Al-Shareef

- Why is everything in Islam haram? Because people only ask questions of what is haram not what is halal.

-Women will be the majority in Hell-Fire. Reasons being:
1) Cursing: cursing their husbands
2) Forgetting the virtue of their husband. All the good things he has done.

-Men are not allowed too:
1) to abandon his wife. If she isn't wearing hijab or praying, he doesn't care.
2) Curse and swear at his wife
3) To hit and beat his wife

-Be patient with your wife. She is created from a bent rib so don't try to straighten it. Don't try to make her into a man.

-If she she's ironing clothes as way to express her love then do the same. Show love the same way she shows love to you.