The Prophetic Methodology in Correcting Mistakes- Sh.Faqih
-never rejoice anybodys mistake or misfortune
-correct mistakes with gentleness
-after the mistake has taken place deal with with gently.No yelling.
-correcting a mistake with harshness isn't the way
1)No crying over spilled milk (after a mistake happens it happens you can't reverse it)
2)Be kind
3)the person is more important than the point. No point losing a friend trying to make a point
A Hadith was narrated:A man urinated inside a masjid and the people wanted to beat him but the prophet (saw) told them and leave him be until he is done. Then he approached him and explained to him with gentleness and kindess that what he is doing is not appropriate in a masjid. The man upon seeing how gentle Rasulallah (saw) was in correcting him made a dua that he and the prophet (saw) be together in jannah and NOT the others who wanted to beat him.
Monday, August 21, 2006
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